Your inner voice is lying to you… and it’s not even yours. April 01 .2026 8 min read W e don’t realize how much of our identity is built on other people’s voices. The things they’ve said about us. The things they thought of us. The opinions we let sink in until they became our own self-talk. If you grew up with loving, supportive people, maybe that inner voice is kind. But for so many women I meet, it isn’t. It’s critical. It’s harsh. It’s unforgiving. And after years of h